Better Than Best: Bars

Better Than Best: Bars

Best Place to (Still) Extend the Weekend Waaay into Monday

Ten years ago, the RUBA Club was a beloved Sunday night secret for the server set, a place where tired, artsy staffers melted memories of being harassed and demeaned away by wasting earnings on cheap slugs of liquor to fuel epic ping-pong battles and shenanigans. (One time, a local musician broke a bottle over the head of that guy from the Strokes. I guess you had to be there.) It slowed down for a while, but the little Russian-Ukrainian Boating Association that could exchanged hands, renovated and now we hear that the cash-only Sunday nights after-hour party vibe is back in full effect. Regularly hosted by multimedia theater artist Daniele Strawmyre of ReadySetGO, the hostess with the mostest knows how to choreograph a good time for the day-jobless and suits who don’t give a shit.

Ruba Hall, 414 Green St. 215.627.9831. rubaclub.org

Best Bar to Go It Alone and Be Left Alone

The awesomely named 12 Steps Down is the dive to pick if you really just want to have a drink (or a smoke inside), in public, by yourself and not be bothered or mistaken for wanting to be hit on. It’s secluded (12 steps under Christian Street), there’s good food ($7 grilled cheese sliders, tomato chutney?!), 300-plus beers, cheap drinks, TV, a jukebox and pool. Most importantly, you’re not going to be the only single person there and won’t stand out with a novel, sketchbook or blank stare on your face as you cradle your G&T. It has the neighborhood bar feel without the record-scratch, “you-don’t-belong-here” attitude.

12 Steps Down, 831 Christian St. 215.238.0379. 12stepsdown.com

Best Bar to Get Berated by Locals

Remember the mention of the record-scratch, “you-don’t-belong-here” thing? (See: Best Bar To Go It Alone and be Left Alone.) Grumpy’s is ace at producing that feeling. Though, once you grab a stool, order a $5 special and generously tip the bartender (don’t even think about looking at the juke box) you might get some respect. Just know that each lumpy old-man, metal-head and juicehead (with Snookie-alike in tow) in the joint wants to know who the hell you think you are? Where’s the bathroom: Who the hell do you think you are? I got next game: WTHDYTYA? How ’bout them Phils: WTHDYTYA? Excuse me, sir, but you seem to have mistaken my shot for yours while I was in the bathroom: WTHDYTYA?!

Grumpy’s Tavern, 1525 S. Ninth St. 215.416.1408.

Best Straight Bar That’s Slowly Turning Into a Gay Bar

With a Big Gay Al doppleganger (Paul, in appearance only) behind the bar and a booming Sunday night karaoke business, Locust Bar’s been slowly getting gayer and gayer with each show tune performed in earnest or pop diva revered. The smoke-filled blue-collar neighborhood bar doesn’t exactly scream pink triangle or rainbow flag, but the clientele that’s been flocking there just might. Before midnight of weekend’s end, droves of sinewy, young and oddball gays show up in hordes to perform and observe. It doesn’t hurt that it’s two blocks from the Bike Stop, but they are completely different universes. Locust is just starting to put its tip toe into a patent-leather pump.

Locust Bar, 235 S. 10th St. 215.925.2191.

Best Reason to Like Chestnut Hill Again (Or At All)

Did you know that, back in the ‘80s, Chestnut Hill wanted desperately to secede from the rest of Philadelphia? Some supporters likened it to “removing the brain from the giant.” True story. Years later, Chestnut Hill is still kinda uppity but seems to accept its home in Philadelphia County (a store that recently opened up there called Hipster Home is an apt testament to that). And now, by some stroke of luck or grace of God, Iron Hill Brewery finds a home in Chestnut Hill, too, right on Germantown Avenue. Iron Hill, which began in Newark, Del., in 1996, is hoping to have its ninth location open by late 2011 or early 2012. The reason its addition to this part of Philly is so unbelievable is because Chestnut Hill has not had an easy time attracting and/or keeping businesses on the Ave. Express peaced out (Jos A. Bank appears to be hanging on) a while back; so did the commercial corridor’s anchor store, Borders. Anyway, the point is that a fuckin’ awesome brewery is coming to Northwest Philly. This is one joint we hope doesn’t go out of business.

Iron Hill Brewery, 8400 Germantown Ave. ironhillbrewery.com/chestnuthill

Best Bar to Bump Fists With a Member of Bardo Pond

If you believe the T-shirts, the El Bar has been in business on Front Street for more than 40 years. Bardo Pond—world-beating psychedelic space rock veterans—have been guiding weird trips from the shadow of the Blue Line for almost as long. So it should be little surprise that the Gibbons Brothers are likely hovering around the El Bar’s pool table on any given night. Or maybe the rhythm section is glued to the flat-screen, cracking wise at Charlie’s shuffle to the mound. Be prepared for a hearty fist-bump, and a conversation that can turn seamlessly from Carlos Ruiz to Damo Suziki.

El Bar, 1356 N. Front St. 215.634.6430.

Best Frozen Drink

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Friday’s XFC 14 fight card finalized, HDNet lineup undergoes two changes

by MMAjunkie.com Staff on Oct 19, 2011 at 7:30 am ET

Friday's XFC 14 fight card finalized, HDNet lineup undergoes two changes With Friday’s XFC 14 event quickly approaching, the promotion has announced a few late changes to the lineup.

Welterweight Nicolae Cury (5-2) replaces Charles Blanchard and now faces Elijah Harshbarger (6-3), and featherweight John Mahlow (12-12) steps in for Lawson McClure to face Bruce Connors (8-3).

Both fights air Friday on HDNet as part of the seven-bout main card of “XFC 14: Resurrection.”

Featuring a headliner of former WEC champion Jamie Varner (17-5-1) vs. fellow lightweight Nate Jolly (10-3), XFC 14 takes place Oct. 21 at UCF Arena in Orlando, Fla., on the campus of the University of Central Florida.

A 31-year-old American Top Team product, Cury is 3-1 in his past four fights. The lone loss came in a local feature bout with Luis Santos at May’s Bellator 45 event. Four of Cury’s five career wins have come via first-round submission. He now meets Harshbarger, who is just 1-2 in his past three fights. However, the losses have come to proven contenders Pete Sell and Ben Saunders.

Meanwhile, Mahlow looks to snap a two-fight losing streak that has seen him fall short to big-show vets Junior Assuncao and Rafaello Oliveira. A five-time XFC vet, “The Mulatto Mauler” also has clashed with notables Luis Palomino, Ryan Roberts, Anthony Lapsley, Jeff Curran, Mac Danzig, Alberto Crane and Antonio McKee, among others. He now faces Connors, who has suffered back-to-back knockout losses to Bogdan Cristea and Micah Miller.

With the official changes, the latest XFC 14 lineup now includes:

MAIN CARD (HDNet)

  • Nate Jolly vs. Jamie Varner
  • Scott Barrett vs. Carmelo Marrero
  • Marianna Kheyfets vs. Molly Helsel
  • Josh Clark vs. Reggie Pena
  • Nicolae Cury vs. Elijah Harshbargar
  • Mike Bernhard vs. Mikey Gomez
  • Bruce Connors vs. John Mahlow

For more on XFC 14, stay tuned to the MMA Rumors section of the site.

(Pictured: Nicolae Cury)

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Support Groups

ADOPTIVE FAMILIES TOGETHER: A group for pre- and post-adoptive families; meets fourth Sun. each month, 7-9 p.m. at Billerica Boys and Girls Club, 19 Campbell Road, Billerica. Call 978-667-3282. AL-ANON ALCOHOLISM SUPPORT: An anonymous fellowship of people whose lives have been affected by another person’s drinking. Based on the 12 steps and traditions of AA and Al-Anon. Meets each Wed., 10-11:30 a.m. at Center Congregational Church, 12 Concord Road, Acton Center. Newcomer’s meeting, 11-11:30 a.m. Free babysitting. AL-ANON ALCOHOLISM SUPPORT: If someone’s drinking is bothering you, Al-Anon can help; meets each Mon., 10:30 a.m., at St. William’s Church, lower level, 1351 Main St., Tewksbury; and each Wed., noon, at Tewksbury Hospital. For info about other locations, call 508-366-0556 or visit www.ma-al-alateen.org. AL-ANON ALCOHOLISM SUPPORT: For those whose lives are affected by another person’s drinking; meets each Fri., 7-9:30 p.m. at Lowell General Hospital, Hanchett Auditorium, Varnum Ave., Lowell; each Sat., 10-11:30 a.m. at Immaculate Conception School, 218 E. Merrimack St., Lowell. Call 781-843-5300. AL-ANON PARENTS SUPPORT GROUP: For parents whose children are struggling with abuse or addiction to drugs or alcohol. Meets each Tues., 7:30-9 p.m. at First Parish Church, 75 Great Road, Bedford Common. ALTERNATIVE HOUSE SUPPORT GROUPS: For women who have been abused, or are in an abusive relationship. Victims can learn about their own options and how to break the cycle of abuse. Collect calls accepted. Call 978-937-5777. ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVER WORKSHOPS: Meets last Wed. each month, 6:30-8 p.m. at Apple Valley Nursing and Rehab Center, 400 Groton Road, Ayer. To register call 978-772-1704, ext. 27. ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT: Meets second and fourth Mon. each month, 1-2:30 p.m. at Chelmsford Senior Center, 75 Groton Road, No. Chelmsford. Call 978-251-8491. ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT: Meets first Wed. each month, 5:30-7:30 p.m. at Life Care Center of Nashoba Valley, 191 Foster St., Littleton. Call 978-486-3512. ALZHEIMER’S EVENING SUPPORT: Meets fourth Tues. each month, 6 p.m. at The Inn at Robbins Brook, Acton/Westford. Call 978 399-2305. ALZHEIMER’S MONTHLY MORNING CAREGIVERS SUPPORT: Meets third Tues. each month, 10:30 a.m. at Concord Park Assisted Living Residence in West Concord. Call 978 369-4728. ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT GROUP: A support group for family members of residents at Heritage Manor and members of the community; held second Mon. each month, 6:15-7:30 p.m. at Heritage Manor, 841 Merrimack St., 2nd floor, Lowell. Call Margaret, 978-459-0546. ALZHEIMER’S SUPPORT GROUP: Meets fourth Tues. each month, 7 p.m. at Blaire House of Tewksbury, 10 B Erlin Terrace, Tewksbury. Registration required. Call 978-851-3121, ext. 3207. ANGER MANAGEMENT GROUP: A group for adolescents and adults seeking help contolling anger issues. Adolescents meet each Mon., 6-7 p.m.; Adults, each Mon., 7-8 p.m. at Center for Health Resources, 3 Baldwin Green Common, Suite 303, Woburn. Contact Elisa Fustolo, 781-932-0257, ext. 2 or Michael Hayden, 978-459-4884. ANXIETY DISORDERS/CHRONIC ANXIETY SUPPORT: Coping strategies in a supportive setting for adults of any age. Free and confidential. Meets each Wed., 2-3:30 p.m. at Chelmsford Senior Center, 75 Groton Road. If interested in attending, call Irene Knox, 978-256-9745. AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDER SUPPORT GROUP: Provides support and education for the parents of children with ASD. Meets first Thurs. of each month, 6:30-8:30 p.m. in Hanchett Auditorium at Lowell General Hospital. Parents of children of all ages are invited. For information, call group leader Denise at 617-872-2673 AUTISM SUPPORT: The Autism Support Group of Chelmsford is a newly established group for parents of children who have an autism spectrum disorder diagnosis. Chelmsford parents of children/adolescents at any age are welcome. Meets at Chelmsford Public Library, Lower Level Conference Room, 25 Boston Road. Call 978-244-9822. AUTISM SUPPORT GROUP: Putting the Pieces Together: A Support Group for those Touched By Autism will meet second and fourth Tues. each month at Pollard Memorial Library, 401 Merrimack St., Lowell. No sign-up required. Facilitated by Meghan Bourbeau, BS Developmental Specialist, South Bay Early Intervention. For info, contact Judith Hahn, 978-452-1736. BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT: Meets second and fourth Wed. each month, (except holidays), 7 p.m. at St. Francis Parish, Wheeler Road, Dracut. Call 978-452-6611. BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT FOR ADULTS: Meets each Thurs., 10-11 a.m. at Dracut Council on Aging, 951 Mammoth Road, Dracut. Call Lucille, 978-372-4211. BEREAVEMENT SUPPORT (G.R.A.S.P.): Grief Recovery After Substance Passing, a free bereavement support group open to anyone who has experienced the death of a loved one to drugs or alcohol, meets second Thurs. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. at 71 Spit Brook Road, Suite 102, Nashua, N.H. Call Erin, 603-882-3786. BEREAVEMENT WORKSHOPS: Merrimack Valley Hospice will hold bereavement support groups, second Mon. each month, 6-7:30 p.m. at Merrimack Valley Hospital, Haverhill. To register call 978-552-4537. BRAIN INJURY SUPPORT: Information for survivors of brain injuries and their families and friends; meets first Wed. each month, 6-7:30 p.m. at St. Joseph Hospital, 172 Kinsley St., Nashua, N.H. Call 603-882-3000, ext. 6750. BREAST CANCER EDUCATION: Saints Medical Center, First floor conference room, 1 Hospital Drive, Lowell, will offer a program for breast cancer survivors and patients currently in treatment, Moments of Sharing, last Mon. each month, 6 p.m. No registration required. Call 978-458-1411, ext. 4560. BREASTFEEDING MOTHERS GROUP: Lowell General Hospital will offer a free drop-in support group for breastfeeding mothers each Tues., 10 a.m.-noon at Lowell Room, 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 978-937-6511. BREASTFEEDING SUPPORT GROUP: Offered by the La Leche League of Westford for women with an interest in breastfeeding, third Wed. each month, 7-9 p.m. at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, 7 Faulkner St., Ayer. Call 978 597-6988, 978-877-0697 or 978-589-0901. CANCER SUPPORT: Meet at Cancer Center of Lowell General Hospital, 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. What About Me? (ages 7-10 and 11-17); meets second Wed. each month, 4 p.m.; Now What? Life After Loss; meets second Wed. each month, 6:30 p.m. To register call 978-937-6142. CANCER SUPPORT FOR SPANISH SPEAKING: Lowell General Hospital will offer a cancer support group in Spanish for patients or family members. Held third Mon. each month, 6:30 p.m. at 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 978-937-6393. CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP: Meets first Wed. each month, 10-11:30 a.m. at Billerica Senior Center, 25 Concord Road. Call 978-671-0916 or visit www.billericacoa.org. CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP: The Alzheimer’s Support Group at the Bedford Council on Aging is for family members, friends, caregivers, and other interested individuals who know, or live with, someone who has dementia. Jim Worthington, a licensed social worker and Director of the Ross-Worthen Dementia Unit at Carleton-Willard Village, is the group leader. Meets third Tues. each month, 2-3:30 p.m. at Bedford Council on Aging. Call 781-275-6825. CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP: This group provides comfort and support for people who are caring for an aging or a chronically ill loved one. Meets on second and fourth Wed., 7-8:30 p.m. in the Merrimack Valley Hospital Atrium, Haverhill. Offered in collaboration with the Elder Services of the Merrimack Valley (ESMV). For more information contact Janice Hrenko at ESMV at 1-800-892-0890. CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP: Do you ever feel overwhelmed, tired, stressed, or depressed helping to care for a family member or friend at home. If so, you are not alone. Caregiver support group meets first Thurs. each month, 10-11:30 a.m., at St. Michaels Parish in North Andover. Co-facilitated by Kelsey Call, Masters in Clinical Social Work of Elder Services of Merrimack Valley, and Trisha Boutilier, Outreach Coordinator of St. Michaels Parish. This free, drop-in, on-going support group is open to all. Contact Trisha for more information at 978-686-4050 x15. CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP: For people affected by Alzheimer’s and memory disorders, meets each second and fourth Wed., 5-6:30 p.m., at Spectrum Adult Day Health Program, 1820 Turnpike St., Suite 106, N. Andover. Led by a social worker and offering a confidential forum for the sharing of coping techniques and information, free respite care will be made available upon request. For more information and to arrange respite services, contact Susan Harrison at 978-921-1697 ext. 221 or sharriso@nhs-healthlink.org. CAREGIVER SUPPORT: Elder Services of the Merrimack Valley, Inc., in partnership with the Tyngsboro Council on Aging, is offering a new support group at the Senior Citizens Center the second Thurs. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. Call 800-892-0890. CAREGIVER SUPPORT: Meets first Mon. each month, 1-2:30 p.m. at Chelmsford Senior Center, 75 Groton Road, No. Chelmsford. Call 978-251-8491. CAREGIVER SUPPORT: A new group that meets first Wed. each month, 10-11:30 a.m. in Billerica with Elaine Patsourakos, MSW, a Licensed Independent Certified Social Worker from Billerica. There is no cost, and the group is open to anyone caring for an elderly relative or friend. CHADD/NASHUA-WINDHAM CHAPTER: A nationwide network of support groups for adults with ADD or AD/HD. Meets third Thurs. each month, 7:30 p.m. at Windham Presbyterian Church, Rte. 111, Windham, N.H. Call 603-880-4997. CO-DEPENDENTS ANONYMOUS (CoDA): A 12-step fellowship of men and women whose common purpose is a desire to develop and maintain healthy relationships. Meets on Tuesdays, 7-8:30 p.m. at Grace Lutheran Church, 130 Spit Brook Road, Nashua, N.H. Newcomers meeting, 6:45-7 p.m. Call 978-937-9311. CONCERNED UNITED BIRTH PARENTS, INC.: Non-profit group for people who have given up children for adoption, adopted persons, adoptive parents, and all others affected by adoption. Meets from Sept.-June. Call 617-328-3005 or 978-386-7148. DEBTORS ANONYMOUS: Meets each Wed. 6:45-8:15 p.m., First Parish Church of Groton, 1 Powderhouse Road, in the Parish House, beside church, on second floor. The first half hour of meeting is quiet time to work on numbers. No dues or fees. Everyone welcome. 617-728-1426 or www.debtorsanonymous.org DEPRESSION AND BIPOLAR SUPPORT GROUP: DBSA Merrimack Valley meets each Mon., 6-7:30 p.m. at Eliot Presbyterian Church, 273 Summer St., Lowell, and each Thurs., 6-7:30 p.m. at First Church of the Nazarene, 1195 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 1-888-280-7773 or email info@dbsamerrimackvalley.org. DIABETES LIVE & LEARN EDUCATIONAL GROUP: Meets second Thurs. each month, 6-7 p.m. at Saints Medical Center, first floor conference room, 1 Hospital Drive, Lowell. Free. Call 978-458-1411, ext. 4502, 978-934-8447 or visit www.saintsmedicalcenter.com. DIABETES SUPPORT: Meets first Wed. each month, 6-7 p.m. at Nashoba Valley Medical Center, Founders Room, 200 Groton Road, Ayer. Call 978-784-9452. DIVORCE SUPPORT: A newly formed group for divorced moms of teenagers and young adult children who have or are suffering from traumatic custody issues. For location information call Beverly, 978-345-5220. DIVORCE SUPPORT FOR MEN: Men in all phases of divorce are welcome to discuss their experiences in a relaxed, non-judgmental setting in the Pepperell-Groton area. Call Peter, 978-360-3786 or laber@charter.net DOMESTIC VIOLENCE SUPPORT GROUP: Alternative House offers free weekly support group to women coping with the effects of domestic violence. Groups are held in a confidential location. For more information, please call 978-937-5777. DOWN SYNDROME SUPPORT: A support group for parents of children with Down Syndrome; meets third Mon. each month, 7-9 p.m. in Clark Auditorium, Lowell General Hospital, 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Children welcome. 978-459-6854, 454-0794 or 937-6511. DROP-IN GRIEF SUPPORT: Merrimack Valley Hospice and Holy Family Hospital have joined forces to offer a drop-in grief support group at Holy Family Hospital, Methuen the first Thurs. each month, 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Call 978-552-4539. EASY BREATHERS SUPPORT GROUP: A group for those diagnosed with a lung disease, their families and friends; meets third Thurs. each month, noon at Emerson Hospital, Concord. All welcome. To register call Claire, 978-287-3715. EMOTIONS ANONYMOUS: Meet each Sat., 10 a.m. at First Congregational Church, 25 Woburn St., Reading. FAITHWORKS: A faith-based support group for unemployed and employed men and women in the Merrimack Valley, combining prayerful discernment, networking and practical job search and career skills in a spirit of fellowship. Meets at St. Catherine’s parish center mezzanine, 107 North Main St., Westford. Visit www.stcatherinescareernetwork.ning.com or call 508-479-7254. FAMILIES ANONYMOUS: A group of concerned relatives and friends whose lives have been adversely affected by a loved one’s abuse of drugs or alcohol, following steps and traditions similar to those of Alcoholics Anonymous. Meets each Wed., 7 p.m. at First Parish Church of Groton, Parish House, Rtes. 119 and 40. Call 978-448-3402. FAMILIES ANONYMOUS: A 12-step self-help support group of families of drug abusers and those with behavioral problems. Meets each Thurs., 7-8:30 p.m. at Wilmington United Methodist Church, 87 Church St., Wilmington. Call 800-736-9805. FIBROMYALGIA SUPPORT: Meets first Thurs. each month, 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Lowell General Hospital, Donovan Conference Room, 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 978-204-8253. GAMBLERS ANONYMOUS: Meets each Sun., 7-8:30 p.m. at Pawtucket Congregational Church, 15 Mammoth Road, Lowell. GRIEF AND LOSS SUPPORT: Meets second Tues. each month, 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. at Billerica Senior Center. To register call 978-671-0916. GRIEF SUPPORT: Meets second Tues. each month, 1:30-3 p.m. at Chelmsford Senior Center, 75 Groton Road. Open to all. Call Diane, 978-552-4539. GRIEVING SONS AND DAUGHTERS WORKSHOP: Supportive and educational workshop open to any adults, ages 25+ years old that have recently lost one or both parents. Call Lu Bonanno at 978-372-4211 to register. Location of the workshop will be provided during registration. HEADACHE SUPPORT: Offered by St. Joseph’s Hosptal, Nashua, N.H. in conjunction with the National Headache Foundation; for headache sufferers, their families and friends. Meets second Wed. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. at St. Joseph’s Hospital, Conference Room A, 5th floor, 172 Kinsley St., Nashua, N.H. Call Judy, 603-557-8216. HIV AND AIDS SUPPORT: Open Hearts, support services for those living with and affected by HIV and AIDS, meets each Mon., 7-9 p.m. at Saint Pius X Parish Center, Manchester, N.H. Call 603-622-6510, ext. 21. HUNTINGTON’S DISEASE SOCIETY OF AMERICA: A support group for caregivers, those with HD, and persons of risk. Meets second Wed. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. at Tewksbury Public Library, Chandler St. Call 508-872-8102, ext. 18. INSULIN PUMP SUPPORT GROUP: Meets second Wed. each month, 7-8 p.m., in the Library at Nashoba Valley Medical Center, 200 Groton Road, Ayer. Call 978-784-9452. LA LECHE LEAGUE OF TOWNSEND/PEPPERELL: For expecting and breastfeeding mothers, meets first Tues. each month, 6-8 p.m. at The Lawrence Library Toddler’s Room, 15 Main Street (Rt. 113), Pepperell. La Leche League International is a non-profit organization that offers breastfeeding information and support. Call Daryl, 978-589-0901 or Jen, 603-878-3192. LEARN TO COPE: LTC is a peer lead support group for parents/caregivers struggling with a member of the family who is addicted to opiates/alcohol and other drugs. Meets each Wed., 7-9 p.m. at Saints Medical Center, 1 Hospital Dr., Lowell. Call 508-801-3247 or visit www.learn2cope.org. www.saintsmedicalcenter.com/health-wellness/Supportgroups/General. LIFE SUPPORT DISCUSSION GROUP: Meets each Sun., 6-7 p.m. at The Natural Touch Wellness Center, 238 Central St., Rte. 111, Hudson, N.H. 603-886-1467. LIVING WELL WITH CML: Are you or someone you know living with chronic myeloid leukemia (CML)? Join Novartis Oncology, along with The National CML Society and a panel of healthcare experts, for a free day of education, support and networking at the Westin Waltham, Sat., Oct. 22, 10 a.m.-2 P.M. Register at www.CMLPatientSummit.com. LIVING WITH CHRONIC ILLNESS: Eliot Community Human Services in Concord offers a 12-week group for men and women with chronic medical illness to help counter isolation and address issues of self-image, anger, depression and communication. Meets each Thurs., 10-11:30 a.m. at the Eliot Center, Emerson Hospital, Concord. Fee based on sliding scale; most insurances accepted. For information call Dana Snyder-Grant, LICSW, 978- 369-1113. LOWELL HOUSE ADVOCACY BOARD: Meets third Fri. each month at 555 Merrimack St., Lowell. Anyone with substance abuse or knows of others with substance abuse or those who are currently sober are welcome. Call Mark 978-452-9801 or the agency 978-459-8656. LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP: Meets second Thurs. each month at 10 a.m. at Chelmsford Senior Center, 75 Groton Road, N. Chelmsford. Please register, 978-251-0533. MEDITATION AND GUIDED IMAGERY: A group for anyone at any stage of their cancer journey. Offers complimientary therapies to help reduce stress, anxiety and depression. Meets second and fourth Wed., 6-7:15 p.m. at Saints Medical Center, Physician’s Lounge, Main Cafeteria, second floor, 1 Hospital Drive, Lowell. To register call 978-934-8457. MEN’S SUPPORT FOR PROSTATE CANCER: Meets each Tues., 6:30-8 p.m. at Franciscan Retreat Center, 459 River Road, Andover. Call the Center, 978-851-3391 or Jim, 978-996-3030. MENTAL ILLNESS SUPPORT: The National Alliance for the Mentally Ill of Greater Lowell meets third Wed. each month, 7 p.m. at Solomon Mental Health Center, 391 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 978-677-0618. MENTAL ILLNESS SUPPORT GROUPS: The National Alliance for the Mentally Ill of North Central Massachusetts will hold a group for those with mental illness and their family members, each Thurs., 7-8:30 p.m. at Messiah Lutheran Church, 750 Rindge Road, Fitchburg. Call Maureen, 978-772-4243. MENTAL ILLNESS SUPPORT FOR FAMILIES: The National Alliance on Mental Illness of Central Middlesex offers daytime and evening support groups for families; meets last Tues. of each month, 7:30-9:30 p.m., at the First Church of Christ Congregational, 25 Great Road, Bedford Center; third Sat. each month, 10 a.m.-noon at First Parish Church, Stow, rtes. 117/62. Call 781-982-3318. MILITARY SUPPORT: A support group for families who have loved ones being deployed or presently deployed, or those who are dealing with post-deployment issues. Meets each Tues., 7 p.m. at St. Theresa’s Parish Center, 470 Boston Road, Billerica. Call Karen Stocker, 978-667-9312 or Deacon Tom Mullins, 978-663-8816, ext. 14. MILITARY SUPPORT: A support group for both veterans and their families. Meets second Wed. each month, 6-8:30 p.m. at Townsend Rod & Gun Club, Townsend. Call Lauren and Paul Taylor, 978-582-1177 or patsgirl2004@msn.com MOTHERS AND MORE DISCUSSION GROUP: Newly formed Westford chapter of Mothers and More; meets at Roudenbush Center, Westford. Call 978-692-1172. MOVING ON: For those who are divorced, separated or widowed who are ready to move on with their lives; meets each Thurs., 7:30-9 p.m. at Church of the Redeemer, 6 Meriaim St., Lexington. Call Marti, 978-256-5872 or Phil, 978-922-3690. NEW MILLENNIUM DIVORCE SUPPORT: For the separated and divorced; meets each Sun., 7-9 p.m. at St. Michael’s School, 21 Sixth St., Lowell. Call Carlos, 978-957-2063 or email cck3353@comcast.net. NEW MOTHERS SUPPORT: A drop-in support group for new mothers who have questions and concerns about their new baby; meets each Tues., 10 a.m.-noon at Lowell General Hospital, 295 Varnum Ave., Lowell. Call 978-937-6425. OPIATE RECOVERY: The Center for Health Resources, 3 Baldwin Green Common, Suite 303, Woburn is holding a support group for anyone seeking to recover from addiction to opiates each Wed., 6-7 p.m. Call 781-932-0257. OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS: Does food control your life? Overeaters Anonymous can help with free meetings in the Lawrence and greater Lawrence areas. No dues or fees. All are welcome. Meeting lists available at www.OA.org/meetings or contact 781-641-2303. OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS: Meets each Mon., 7 p.m. at Saints Medical Center Resident Hall, Stackpole St., Lowell and each Sat., 2 p.m. at Unitarian Universalist Church, Chelmsford. Call 781-641-2303 or info@oambi.org OVEREATERS ANONYMOUS: Meets each Fri., 10 a.m. at St. Wiliam’s Church, 1351 Main St., Tewksbury. PANIC/ANXIETY/AGORAPHOBIA SUPPORT: Meets second and fourth Fri. each month, 2:30-3:45 p.m. at Lowell Council on Aging, 276 Broadway St., Lowell. Confidential, free. No phone calls. weekesway@yahoo.com PANIC TO ANXIETY GROUP: Meets each Mon., 7-8:30 p.m. at St. Therese’s School, Lakeview Ave., Dracut. Call Jack at 603-321-5202. PARENTS HELPING PARENTS: Offers free, confidential and anonymous weekly support groups for parents throughout Massachusetts. Share experiences and get support and encouragement from other parents. Call 800-882-1250 for information about groups in our area. PARENTS OF MURDERED CHILDREN AND OTHER SURVIVORS OF HOMICIDE VICTIMS: Meets second Tues. each month, 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Saints Medical Center Auditorium, Stackpole St., Lowell. Call Arnie, 978-452-5858. PARENTS RAISING CHILDREN WITH BIPOLAR DISORDER: A group for parents and caregivers of children with bipolar disorder. Drop-ins welcome. Call Kerry, 978-337-3676 or kerrollins@comcast.net PARENT SUPPORT GROUP: A group for parents of children with an emotional or behavorial issue. Meets second and fourth Tues. each month, 6-7:45 p.m. at MSPCC, Phoenix St., Lowell. A second group for parents of youth transitioning to adult services will meet first Tues. each month, 6-7:45 p.m., call for location. Call 978-513-2379. PARENTS WITHOUT PARTNERS: A mutual support, educational and social group for divorced, widowed, separated and single parents and their children. Organizations in northern Massachusetts and N.H. Call 603-669-4275 or www.geocities.com\pwp1239 PRE-POST TRANSPLANT SUPPORT: Meets first Wed. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. at Southern N.H. Medical Center, Nashua, N.H. Call Ron Rioux, 603-889-1775 for room location. RAPE CRISIS SERVICES OF GREATER LOWELL: Offering free groups to survivors of sexual assault; art therapy support for adult female survivors; support for adult male survivors; art therapy for teen survivors. New programs offered for free: Gentle Yoga for adult female survivors of sexual assault, Coping Skills for adult female survivors, and Parent Drop-In group for non-offending parents of survivors. Call 978-452-7721. SAFE PLACE: A confidential and free support group for those who have lost a friend or family member through suicide. Meets second and fourth Tues. each month, 7-8:30 p.m. at St. Michael Parish, 196 Main St., North Andover. Meetings are facilitated by survivors. Call Debbie, 978-688-0030. THE SAMARITANS: Trained volunteers are available 24-hours per day to speak to those who are lonely, depressed or suicidal. In the Lowell area call 978-452-6733; Lawrence area, 978-688-6607; Haverhill area, 978-372-7200; Newburyport area, 978- 465-6100; for teens call toll free 888-767-8336. SAMARITANS SUICIDE SURVIVORS: For survivors of a suicide lost and is facilitated by trained volunteers whom have also lost a loved one to suicide. Meets second and fourth Tues. of each month, 7-8:30 p.m., at Centralville Methodist Church, corner of Bridge and Hildreth Sts., Lowell. Call Linda at 978-726-3360 or 978-888-4532. SELF-HELP INJURIOUS ANONYMOUS: A self-help group for people who want to stop self-injurious behavior. Weekly meetings; 12-step format. For information call 978-683-3128, ext. 1717. SEPARATED, DIVORCED AND BEYOND: Join us for support, fellowship and coping tools on the third Sun. of each month, 7 p.m., at Saint Francis Parish, 115 Wheeler Road, Dracut. Meetings are confidential. Call 978-452-6611. S.M.A.R.T. RECOVERY: A self-help group using a cognitive-behavioral approach to problems with alcohol and drugs; meets each Tues., 6:30-8 p.m. at Middlesex Community College, Room 115, 15 Kearney Sq., Lowell. Call 781-275-8175, 866-951-5357 or visit smartrecovery.org SOUTHERN NEW HAMPSHIRE GLUTEN INTOLERANCE ASSN: A resource group that meets bi-monthly for individuals with celiac disease or gluten intolerance. Meets at Merrimack Valley Baptist Church, 517 Boston Post Road, Merrimack, N.H. Call 603-437-1702. STARTING OVER: For those who are divorced or separated and have issues from their past relationship; meets each Tues., 7:30-9 p.m. at Town Center Building, 1-2 Mudge Way, Bedford. Call 781-271-1160 or 781-275-6825. SURVIVORS OF SUICIDE: Meets second and fourth Mon. of every month, 7:30 p.m., at First Church Unitarian, 19 Foster St., Littleton. Call Nancy at 978-425-6654 or Barbara Whitcomb at 978-486-4928. TAKE OFF POUNDS SENSIBLY (TOPS): A weekly weight loss support group meets each Tues., 6 p.m. at St. Michael’s Church Hall, 543 Bridge St., Lowell. Men & women welcome. Call 978-957-7327. 12-STEP SELF-HELP GROUP: For concerned family members and friends of adults who suffer with a mental illness or serious brain disorder; meets each Thurs., 10:30 a.m-noon, Kelley Library, 234 Main St., Salem, N.H. Offered by CLM Behavioral Health in conjunction with National Alliance for the Mentally Ill, N.H. Chapter. Call 603-434-9937. VETERANS SERVICES: The Department of Veterans Affairs is taking steps to help veterans with their readjustment. The Department is in the process of adding 23 new vet centers throughout the nation to provide more individual, group and family counseling to veterans of all wars who have served in combat zones. The centers also include a suicide prevention call line. Call 800-273-TALK. All calls confidential. WE CARE CANCER SUPPORT GROUP: This group offers support for cancer patients, their family and friends. Meets first and third Tues. of every month, 5:30-7:30 p.m. in the Merrimack Valley Hospital Atrium, Haverhill. For more information contact Becky Sweeney, Director of Case Management, at 978-521-3651. WEIGHT WATCHERS: Meets at Saints Medical Center, 1 Hospital Drive, Lowell, each Thurs. 4:15 p.m. and Sat. 8:30 a.m. in the Residence Building Auditorium. All are welcome. WHAT TO EXPECT IN REHAB: Life Care Center of the Merrimack Valley will hold a discussion on rehabilitation, third Tues. each month, 4-6 p.m. at 80 Boston Road, Billerica. Call 978-667-2166. YOUNG PARENTS SUPPORT PROGRAM (YPSP): A free program for teen mothers or teen mothers-to-be (ages 19 and under), meets each Wed., 2:30-4:30 p.m. at YWCA of Lowell, 206 Rogers St. Open to residents of Lowell, Billerica, Chelmsford, Dracut, Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford. Transportation provided for residents of Lowell. Call 978-454-5405, ext. 121. YOUNG WIDOWS AND WIDOWERS: A non-profit, non-sectarian mutual help organization providing support to younger widowed women and men during their period of bereavement and readjustment. Meets in Andover each Wed., 7-9 p.m. and second and fourth Tues., 7-9 p.m. For location information call 978-979-8993.

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12 steps toward a financially capable Minnesota

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Mike Rothman is making good on his promise to focus on the financial capability of Minnesotans as commissioner of the state’s Commerce Department.

Way back in April, he convened a group of government officials, nonprofit leaders and bankers to discuss what needs to be done to improve the financial fitness of Minnesotans of all ages.

On Tuesday morning, his office released a financial literacy action plan designed using input from that meeting in April.

The same morning, Rothman spoke at an event sponsored by the Northwest Area Foundation that focused on asset poverty in the Twin Cities. The Corporation for Enterprise Development released new data today that showed 35 percent of Minneaoplis residents live in asset poverty, which is defined as not having enough assets to live at the poverty level ($22,314 for a family of four) for three months if they lose their job. The study found a sobering 121 percent gap in the asset poverty rate between Minneapolis’s white and minority households. Check startribune.com later for a full story on the results.

Here are the 12 financial literacy initiatives. What do you think? Anything missing?

  1. Continuing an aggressive commitment to timely, relevant consumer alerts and improving public awareness of the department’s enforcement actions.
  2. Begin the construction of an online financial literacy clearinghouse. This will be housed at the newly redesigned Commerce Department website.
  3. Improve consumer outreach to senior citizens.
  4. Engage in discussions with financial institutions and professional associations about how to partner public and private interests to advance the cause of financial literacy in Minnesota.
  5. Explore Hopkins economics teacher David Braaten’s idea to incentivize youth participation in personal finance courses. One idea floated? Student certificates redeemable at banks and credit unions upon the completion of personal finance courses. I recently wrote about the Hopkins school district’s decision to make a financial literacy course a graduation requirement.
  6. More actively participate in financial literacy organizations and events. Commissioner Rothman himself has committed to attend more events.
  7. Meet with DEED, the Minnesota Department of Education, the Department of Human Services’ Office of Economic Opportunity, and the Minnesota Department of Higher Education to explore new ways to partner on financial literacy efforts.
  8. Improve outreach to communities of color and immigrant populations.
  9. Explore legislative initiatives that could advance the cause of financial literacy in Minnesota.
  10. Continue the Minnesota Department of Commerce’s involvement in Slice of Spring and other state employee education opportunities This annual event helps state employers better understand their 401(k)s, pensions and other benefits.
  11. Continue hosting financial literacy roundtable discussions.
  12. Improve state-federal partnerships on financial literacy efforts.

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Battle against substance abuse drives volunteer

Battle against substance abuse drives volunteer

BY ANDREW MARTINS

Staff Writer

PLUMSTED — A lifetime of community service was officially recognized by the Plumsted Township Committee on Oct. 5 as lifelong resident Jim Hendrickson was presented with a joint resolution from the state Legislature commending his work with drug and alcohol recovery.

Mayor Ron Dancer, who serves in the state Assembly, said, “The Legislature paused in its deliberations and recognized Jim’s efforts. This is now a permanent record in the New Jersey Legislature, where we had 120 legislators unanimously adopt and approve it.”

Hendrickson was honored as the 2011 Ocean County Volunteer of the Year at the Governor’s Council on Alcoholism and Drug Abuse Summit held on Sept. 9 in Princeton.

“We all know what Jim has been doing around here for 25 years,” Dancer said.

Hendrickson, 66, said he made it his life’s work to help people who are struggling with substance abuse after life took him down that same road.

“There was a time when Warren Burns was the police chief and was the only officer in town. I was probably 12 or 14 years old when he told me to get out of town and don’t come back,” Hendrickson said.

He said that as he got older, his struggles with alcohol began. He was not able to kick the habit until he was 27.

“I got sober in 1972 and I’ve been in recovery for 38 years,” said Hendrickson, who started the first addiction support group in Plumsted almost 30 years ago.

There are now six support groups that see between 300 and 400 people a month.

Since 1989, when the Plumsted Municipal Drug and Alcohol Alliance began to take shape, Hendrickson has worked with the township to raise awareness about the efforts of substance abuse recovery.

“I think Plumsted is one of the most supportive communities around, as far as volunteers in the community go,” Hendrickson said. “The Township Committee has been dedicated and their encouragement is what keeps us going.”

After sustaining a work-related injury, Hendrickson began studying alcohol and drug issues so he could become a certified counselor. He earned his counselor’s license in 1996.

Since then the list of organizations Hendrickson has given his time to has grown to include the Friends of Addiction Recovery of New Jersey, the Plumsted Municipal Alcohol and Drug Alliance and the Juvenile Justice Commission.

Work with the police department, the municipal court and various civil groups round out his efforts.

“I’m just a community activist. When I got this award, I had no idea it was coming,” Hendrickson said. “I was totally surprised and I feel really humbled by it. This was never the intention. I was just doing what I was doing because it was helping the community.”

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Matthew Norman: GPs – like glorified plumbers only with shorter hours

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The British have only one national religion, Nigel Lawson famously observed, and it is the NHS. The former Chancellor was bang on the money back in the 80s, and today most of us still worship the great monolith. For all that, one sniffs a rise in heretical questioning, and even agnosticism. No sooner have the angels of geriatric nursing been stripped of their wings than the local priests, our general practitioners, come under attack.

Complaints about GPs summarily removing patients from their lists have risen in the last year, and ombudsman Ann Abraham is rightly displeased that a growing number of family doctors now operate a zero tolerance policy better suited to one of those publicity-crazed sheriffs beloved of rural Alabama voters.

The rules which dictate that GPs observe a careful process before sacking a patient are increasingly ignored, we are told. Indeed, some doctors are now as queenily intolerant of perceived disobedience from those they are paid to look after as cabin crew who demand an emergency landing to remove a passenger for looking at them funny after a two-hour wait for the complimentary peanuts. As always with the NHS, its vastness makes it very hard to gauge the scale of a problem from the statistics alone, and the figures here are tiny. But invariably we judge its state of health not from waiting list times or cancer survival rates, but from personal experience and anecdotal evidence… anecdotes like that of the terminally ill woman peremptorily struck off, along with the daughter who changed a battery in a nausea-alleviating device without waiting for the district nurse.

Every trade has its fools and nutters, and you cannot judge a profession by the pathological idiocy of the odd individual. And yet there is that osmotic sense that GPs are ever more vulnerable to the inflammatory disease known in Harley Street (forgive the technicality; there are excellent medical dictionaries online) as uptheirownarseitis; that too many have forgotten, if they ever knew it, that theirs is a service industry.

I trust no physician will take umbrage if we describe the GP as a glorified plumber with shorter hours, much better pay and a less cumbersome toolbox. No offence is intended, because to this urban Jew the simplest precepts of plumbing are as awe-inspiring as those of car mechanics or deckchair assemblage. The challenges facing the GP are, in fact, less opaque. All correctly hypochondriacal Jews regard themselves as doctors who never bothered with the petit bourgeois requirement of formal training, and I am a consultant diagnostician of the first water.

Writing as such, I have enormous sympathy for the humble GP. He or she is obliged to spend most of a draining 45-hour week dealing with athlete’s foot, housemaid’s knee and minor infections of the upper respiratory tract. They are also at peril not only of the alcoholism and drug addiction that plague the business, but of repetitive strain injury from scrawling “Amoxicillin” on a prescription pad to nudge the cold-sufferer out after five minutes, albeit the drugs won’t foreshorten the sniffling by so much as five seconds.

Also writing as such, I have even more sympathy for any GP who has to deal with the likes of me. I wouldn’t wish myself – armed to the teeth with internet-published research papers and results of double-blind clinical trials – on Dr Shipman, Dr Mengele or even Dr Fox (and his faithful sidekick Nurse Werritty). Yet that sympathy is tempered by the suspicion that the startling improvement in GPs’ pay and conditions under New Labour is alienating them – or more of them; one hears as often of brilliant and empathetic GPs as of cocky, clueless ones – from those who effectively pay their salaries.

A century ago, in his coruscating foreword to The Doctor’s Dilemma, George Bernard Shaw regretted the typical physician’s poverty. Today, the British GP is much the most lavishly rewarded in the Western world, with £100,000 a year not even the average. Many make twice that, and some thrice, despite no longer being obliged to work outside office hours, so that the nocturnally stricken are left to the untender mercies of often inadequate locums.

In return for such reimbursement, we ask no more than a fairly prompt appointment with a competent doctor, and that the receptionist not be styled after a Chinatown waiter trained to insult punters to ensure the table is freed up as quickly as possible. Much too often, anecdote insists, even these modest expectations are unmet. Over-indulgent treatment by government has a knack of divorcing public servants (even if most GPs are technically self-employed) from the public they allegedly serve, as students of modern policing may agree.

The reputations of every once-cherished British institution have bombed in recent decades and, like the BBC, the NHS has been latterly weakened by the perceptions of bloated budgets and insular arrogance. The Beeb has reacted well to the criticisms, and the British Medical Association would do well not to dismiss Ms Abraham with high-handed disdain. I wouldn’t describe the health service as the opiate of the masses (you try asking your GP for liquid diamorphine), but it is a religion and, like all religions, relies on the sustenance of faith. Peremptorily excommunicating the dying is a shocking betrayal of that faith, and should be no more tolerated than priestly interference with choirboys.

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A ‘Healing Field’ to remember our young

BACODA & San Jacinto College South bring the Second Annual Healing Field®: A Memorial to campus during National Collegiate Alcohol Awareness Week to remember those lost to alcohol-related motor vehicle crashes on Texas roadways in 2010

In conjunction with National Collegiate Alcohol Awareness Week, the Bay Area Council On Drugs & Alcohol (BACODA) and San Jacinto College South hosts the Second Annual Healing Field® for lives lost under the age of 21 due to alcohol-related motor vehicle accidents on Texas roadways in 2010.

Last year, 210 adolescents and young adults lost their lives due to drunken driving.

Ellie Meyer, coordinator for student life at San Jac South says the field is a reminder to students about the dangers of drinking and driving.

“We will continue to do it every year until the number of flags we need to place is zero,” Meyer said.

“Nearly 14 percent of those who died last year were under 21 years old,” Tonya Mathis, events coordinator for BACODA said.

“By showing the flags during National Collegiate Alcohol Awareness Week, we give the students a strong visualization lives lost, and it really seems to resonate with them,” Mathis said.

Eric Gonzalez, a student at San Jac South saw the flags last year. His grandmother passed away in February 2004 after being struck by a drunken driver. Gonzalez said the flags really held a lot of meaning for him.

“These flags are living proof that someone had so much potential,” Gonzalez said. “Don’t cause so much heartache for whoever cares about you; don’t drink and drive.”

To help those who are greatly impacted by the Healing Field®, this Wednesday, October 19th, BACODA will provide free outreach services to both students and employees of San Jac South.

San Jac South will also sponsor the Save-A-Life Tour, featuring a multi-million dollar drinking and driving simulator that gives participants a realistic, sober perspective on the effects of driving whileintoxicated, according to SaveALifeTour.com. The College’s counseling staff will also conduct alcohol screenings throughout the week.

The Under 21 Healing Field® is a preview to BACODA’s statewide Healing Field® in November. On November 14, 2011 1,551 American flags will stand at Walter Hall Park, 807 Highway 3 N., in League City as a temporary memorial to honor those who lost their lives in 2010.

Mathis said the event offers a degree of closure to many who walk through the field of flags.

“This is an opportunity for people to mourn and remember those they lost too soon,” Mathis said. “The Field is open all week during park hours, and I would like to encourage everyone to show their support by attending the ceremony.”

The Healing Field® is open to everyone who has ever been impacted by a drunken driving accident or fatality, and anyone who wants to learn more about preventative efforts, Mathis said.

In addition to the ceremony, BACODA will host Honoring Our Veterans and a Recovery Day program on November 11 and 15 respectively.Also, after the ceremony on November 14, there will be scheduled tours throughout the day. Details on these events may be found at www.BACODA.org.

BACODA and its partners, including TABC, Texas Department of State Health Services, Houston-Galveston Area Council and Unite Way of Galveston County, among others, are committed to creating change andbringing continual awareness to the dangers of drinking and driving.

“By joining forces with community organizations and leadership, such as BACODA, we can make a difference,” said Alan Steen, administrator of the Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission (TABC). “I applaud their leadership and initiative in tackling this problem.”

“We want this event to raise awareness of the enormity of the problem,” said Karen Van Horne, CEO of BACODA. “Awareness builds strength in a community – a strength that can bring about social change.”

If you or someone you know is interested in participating in the Healing Field® Ceremony, planting a flag, or volunteering please call Tonya Mathis at 1-800-510-3111 or email her at Tonya.Mathis@bacoda.com.

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Shamanism: Religion next door to medicine

Shamanism: Religion next door to medicine Shamanism is the national religion in many regions of the Earth, including Yakutia. The ancient belief has survived the Soviet persecution of religion. During those atheist years the Yakut shamans were hiding their abilities. The remaining oyuuns, as they were called by the local population, and Udege (female shamans) soon found a loophole. With a talent for medicine, they found work as medical staff and veterinarians. Hiding under the guise of the Soviet medicine, Yakut shamans secretly conducted their magical rituals.



”When conventional medicine cannot help a person, people go to a shaman,” told Andrei Martynov, chairman of the organization of the Yakut-Russian Society “Knowledge”, a former vice-president of the Republic of Sakha (Yakutia) to Pravda.ru. “Our grandmothers say that when Peter the Great was seriously ill he sought help from the Yakut shamans. They say that the emperor did not have enough time to get to Yakutia, so he died.”


A famous doctor of the republic Alexandra Chirkova lives and works in Yakutia. She is a prominent surgeon and physician accustomed to working with the latest developments of European medicine. At the same time, Alexander extensively uses techniques of shamanic medicine. In her words, modern science emerged from ancient methods of healing. The shamans in Yakutia were skilled psychologists who have used visual diagnosis.

Shamans are respected and protected by local people and local authorities. Some hereditary oyuunams can be reached only going through the tundra across Yakutia.

Not everyone would risk going to Tataysky ulus. To get there one has to travel half an hour on the river Lena, and then seven hours by car. This is far even for Yakutia. Vehicles often break down and roll over.

Locals say that this is the work of the great dead shamans who lived at one time on this land. Their souls are the guardians of the roads to the houses of oyuuns, protecting them from unauthorized eyes. If someone manages to get to oyuun, it means that this person arrived with an open heart and sincere intentions, including a strong desire to heal.

Yakut shamans treated people with tambourines. When oyuuns treat the sick, they speaks to the spirit of the disease. The medical ritual drum has to sound calm and measured, otherwise the patient will get nervous. There is another explanation of the healing power of the drums. The vibration of the drum improves the cardiovascular system, which is good for the health of other body organs. Depending on whether you want to speed up or slow down the patient’s heart, the shaman accelerates or slows down the tambourine.

Shaman ritual instrument must be “alive” that is, repeatedly used, to talk with the spirits. If there is no “live drum”, shamans sometimes use khomus, or Jew’s harp. Khomus affects the power centers of the nervous system and relieves stress.

Almost all Russian shamans call the decline of spirituality the main cause of disease in humans. “People no longer believe, and therefore get sick often. Disease is the offspring of evil spirits. People think bad thoughts that attract illness and then suffer”, told Buryat shaman Tyurgen Kam to the news agency “Taiga. Info.” 

In modern Yakutia and beyond people know the name of Vladimir Kondakov. He is considered a “white shaman.” Kondakov was a physician by training, a medical doctor. Kondakov’s Shamanism was in treating people.

Being the supreme oyuun of Yakutia for many years, he believed that man and nature have always been united. Nature is the “world tree”, or Aal Kuduk Maas, which consists of three worlds. People were sent to the median world by spirits, the inhabitants of the upper world.

Accustomed to a carefree life, people got lazy and were “exiled” to the middle world. For the people not to forget ancestral relationship with the spirits, they gave the “mother heart” or Iye-Kut. In addition to Iye-Kut, people have Buor Kut, or “earthy soul.” The third Kut connects people with the cosmos. Together the three form a flap sur. The Russian researcher Nikolai Alekseev defines shamanism as sur bioenergy, coming from a person and representing their will and mind.

If any of the three parts get deformed, then the entire body suffers. People get sick. Shaman rite helps people to restore harmony. 

The Yakut shaman Michael Chashkin sees the cause of diseases of the modern humans as follows: “Now there is a lot of alcoholism, high blood pressure. Disease depends on the composition of blood. It deteriorated due to climate change, different food, clothes, drinking and smoking. People departed from nature”. 

Vladimir Kondakov once told reporters: “Do you think the world is based on the good? No, it is based on a balance of the good and the evil. Now, the evil prevails, and it’s not that God is evil or weak. Evil is in humans. I conduct rites to maintain the nature.” Yakuts believe that the drum of oyuun keeps a balance between the worlds, and this is the guarantee of balance and health.



Arthur Priymak

Pravda.Ru

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Local calendar, October 18

TODAY The University of Redlands Wind Ensemble will perform at 8 p.m. in the university’s Memorial Chapel. The free program includes “La Fiesta Mexicana” by H. Owen Reed, “Marching Song” by Gustav Holst, “Canzona” by Peter Mennin, “Sanctuary” by Frank Ticheli and “Give Us This Day” by David Maslanka. Guest conductors are Jeffrey Osarczuk and Jason Nam. Cops and Clergy Network meets the third Tuesday of every month at noon at Denny’s on Alabama Street. Information: copsclergynet@aol.com Schwarz Wellness Center presents a free seminar on allergy elimination 6:30p.m. at 555 Cajon St., Suite F, Redlands. Information: 909-793-7900 A story reading program for children ages 3 to 5 is held 11 to 11:45 a.m. every other Tuesday at Katz Alley, 214 E. Redlands Blvd., Redlands. The program includes story reading, finger rhymes and songs. Information: 909-725-5122 Compassionate Friends, Redlands Chapter, a self-help organization for families who have experienced the death of a child, meets the third Tuesday of each month at 7:30 p.m. at First Congregational Church, 2 W. Olive Ave., Redlands. Information: 800-717-0373 or RedlandsTCF@aol.com Caregivers Support Group meets at 1:30p.m. the third Tuesday of each month in the Plymouth Village Lodge, 945 Salem Drive, Redlands. Meetings are free and open to the public. Dates are subject to change. Information: Connie Garrett, 909-793-1233, ext. 1620 The Sandwich Group, a support group for the “sandwich generation” who act as caregivers, meets at noon the third Tuesday of each month in the office of the Redlands United Church of Christ, 168 Bellevue Ave. Information: 909-793-3520 “Afternoon Delight” dance socials for seniors are held 1 p.m. the third Tuesday of the month at the Loma Linda Senior Center, 25571 Barton Road, behind the fire station. There is no charge. An Alzheimer’s caregiver support group meets 5 p.m. the third Tuesday of every month at First United Methodist Church, 1 E. Olive Ave., Redlands. Meetings are in Room 201 of the Education Building. Facilitator is Veronica Ramos of Somerford Place. Information: Karen Gardner, 909-793-2118 Story time and craft hour for children ages 6 to 9 is 4 p.m. Tuesdays at Mentone Branch Library, 1331 Opal Ave., Mentone. Information: 909-794-0327 WEDNESDAY San Bernardino Valley Audubon Society meets 7:30 p.m. at the San Bernardino County Museum, 2024 Orange Tree Lane, Redlands. Kimball Garrett will present a program on “But it doesn’t look like the one in the book.” The illustrated talk will explore the reasons birds seen in the field often don’t match what field guides show. The program is free and open to the public. First Congregational Church conducts a 10 a.m. service the first and third Wednesdays of the month at Mission Commons. The community is invited. Those attending are asked to arrive a few minutes early. Wednesday services at the Christian Science Church are at noon and 7 p.m. Services include Scripture readings, hymns, prayers and testimonies of healing. Those attending the noon service are invited to bring lunch. The church is at 110 W. Vine St., Redlands. Information: 909-792-5575 Hopeful Hearts, an open forum of support and discussion for families with children with congenital heart defects, meets 5 to 6 p.m. the third Wednesday of the month in Room 1832 of the Loma Linda University Children’s Hospital, across from the children’s hospital cafeteria. Information: Irene Hoch, 909-558-4000, ext. 83050 A grief support group meets 11 a.m. the first and third Wednesday of the month at Mission Commons, 10 Terracina Blvd., Redlands. The group is hosted by Chapman Hospice and is open to the public. Information: 909-793-8691 A meditation group meets 7 to 8 p.m. Wednesdays at the Spiritual Treatment Center, 602 N. Church St., Redlands. A Bible study group meets 7 p.m. every Wednesday at Los Rios Rancho, 39611 Oak Glen Road, Oak Glen. Adult Children of Alcoholics meets 7 to 8:30 p.m. every Wednesday at the Church of the Nazarene, 1307 E. Citrus Ave., Redlands. This group for adults offers self-help based on searching for the means of arresting the emotional disease of family alcoholism or other family dysfunction. Group members practice the “12 Steps” to find freedom from the past and a way to improve their lives now. Information: www.adultchildren.org Koffee ‘n’ Toastmasters club meets 7 to 8:30 a.m. every Wednesday at the offices of The Cutler Group, 201 Cajon St., Redlands. Visitors are encouraged to attend. Information: Jeremyha Lyle, 909-534-1423 Cornerstone Hospice grief support group meets at 2 p.m. the second and third Wednesday of the month at Braswell’s Chateau Villa, 620 E. Highland Ave., Redlands. Information: Chaplain Ray, 909-872-8100 National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders meets Wednesdays from 7 to 8 p.m. at 1902 Orange Tree Lane, Suite 150, Redlands. There is no charge. Information: 909-798-4668 Calico Quails Square Dance Club’s beginner square dance class with Brent “Gumby” Lively meets 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. every Wednesday at the Yucaipa Elks Lodge, 12165 Second St., Yucaipa. Information: 909-823-5961 or 951-769-3996 Adult Bible study is 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. every Wednesday at Christ the King Lutheran Church, 1505 S. Ford St, Redlands. The public is welcome. Information: 909-793-5703 Pineapple Jam Ukulele Club beginners’ class meets from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Wednesdays at Scherer Community Center, 12202 First St., Yucaipa. The regular class meets 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. Wednesdays. Information: 909-797-1177 The Christian Roundtable meets for lunch at noon, followed by a discussion from 12:15 to 1 p.m., on Wednesdays in Kimberly Lounge at First Congregational Church, 2 W. Olive Ave., Redlands. Today’s topic is “The primary process.” Moderator is Ray Ashworth. Participants are encouraged to bring lunch. Bereavement and grief support meetings are 9:30 a.m. the first and third Wednesday of the month at Mission Commons retirement community, 10 Terracina Blvd., Redlands. Meetings are free and open to the public. Information: 909-793-8681 Mail for Me Club meets 4:30 p.m. the first and third Wednesday of the month at the Mentone Senior Center and Library, 1331 Opal Ave. The club is for elementary school children. Members make cards for children who are in hospitals in the area. Information: 909-794-0327 Sew What group of the American Sewing Guild meets from 10 a.m. to noon the third Wednesday of the month at Hancock Fabrics, 1524 Barton Road, at Barton Road and Alabama Street, Redlands. Information: Barbara Baker, 909-886-3159 Experimental Aircraft Association, Chapter 845, meets the third Wednesday of the month at 6 p.m. at Redlands Municipal Airport lobby, 1745 Sessums Drive, Redlands. Information: John Krueger, 909-792-8868 THURSDAY ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease) support group meets the third Thursday of each month, 10:30 a.m. to noon, Faculty Medical Offices, Suite B250, 11370 Anderson St., Loma Linda. Redlands Community Toastmasters Club meets at 5:45 p.m. every Thursday at the First Lutheran Church of Redlands, 1207 W. Cypress Ave. Guests are always welcome. Information: Sharon Guiles, 909-206-9688; email smguiles@gmail.com Compulsive Eaters Anonymous meets 10:45 a.m. every Thursday at Grand Terrace Community Center, 22130 Barton Road, Grand Terrace. Information: 909-877-3073 Overeaters Anonymous, a 12-step program for people recovering from eating disorders, meets at 6 p.m. Thursdays at Pathway Church, 611 E. Cypress Ave., Redlands. Information: 951-715-2080; www.go2oa.org Visiting the Lonely Ones group holds information meetings 11 a.m. Thursdays at Loma Linda Springs, 11171 Oakwood Drive, Loma Linda, and 4 to 5 p.m. the first and third Wednesday of the month at the Yucaipa Library, 12040 Fifth St., Yucaipa. The group is for volunteers who visit convalescent home residents. Information: 909-894-4685 Market Night is 6 to 9 p.m. every Thursday on State Street in downtown Redlands. Bible study group meets 9:30 to 10:45 a.m. every Thursday at the First Congregational Church of Redlands. The group is led by the Rev. Lowell Linden. Information: 909-793-3157 Kiwanis Club of Redlands, Evening, meets every Thursday at the Redlands Elks Lodge, 633 New York St., Redlands. Happy hour is 5:30 p.m., meeting and dinner are at 6:30. Kiwanis Club of Redlands, Morning, meets at 6:50 a.m. every Thursday at the Esri Cafe, 380 New York St., Redlands. Cost is $10 for meeting and breakfast. Information: Mike Ballinger, president, 909-583-7565 A Grief and Loss Support Group meets 2 to 3 p.m. Thursdays at Kendall Place on the Plymouth Village campus, 120 E. Palm Ave., Redlands. The group is hosted by VITAS Innovative Hospice and Plymouth Village. Information: Brad Devor, VITAS bereavement services manager, 800-394-6774; 909-368-6000, ext. 6059 Children’s crafts are offered every Thursday at 4 p.m. at the Loma Linda Library. Crafts are for children age 12 and younger. Families Anonymous, a Twelve-Step support program for anyone concerned about chemical dependency or related behavior of a relative or friend, meets 6:30 to 8 p.m. every Thursday at Yucaipa Valley Presbyterian Church, 34558 Avenue E, Yucaipa. No dues or fees. Information: 909-790-7637 Bereavement support group meets 2 p.m. Thursdays at 1845 Business Center Drive, Suite 120, San Bernardino. The group is sponsored by VITAS Innovative Hospice Care. Information: Lorraine Hedtke, 909-386-6000 Experiencing God at Bethany Church meets 7 p.m. the first and third Thursday of every month. Experiencing God, presented by Fleur-de-Lis Ministries, is a spontaneous, yet guided worship service designed to allow people to encounter God in a fresh, new way. The community is welcome to attend. The church is at 705 Cajon St., Redlands. Information: Patty, 909-793-1966 Resource Center for Nonprofit Management presents the Foundation Center’s FC Search CD-ROM Orientation the third Thursday of each month from 6:30 to 8 p.m. at 4505 Allstate Drive, Suite 223, Riverside. Search for grants and grant records. Cost: $15. Information: 909-686-2890. FRIDAY Calico Quails Square Dance Club dances 7 to 10 p.m. the third Friday of the month at the Yucaipa Elks Lodge, 12165 Second St. Information: 909-823-5961 or 951-769-3996 Al-Anon meets 7 to 8:30 p.m. every Friday at The River Church, 459 E. Highland Ave., Redlands. Child care is available for children up to age 12 for $2 per child. Information: 909-792-6362 “Experience Redlands @ Night” features live music 6 to 8 p.m. every Friday and an Art Walk 6 to 9 p.m. the third Friday of the month in downtown Redlands. Valley Preparatory School’s Halloween carnival is 6 to 9 p.m. at the school, 1605 Ford St., Redlands. Trinity Mothers of Munchkins (TMOMs), for mothers of preschoolers, meets 9 to 11:30 a.m. every other Friday in Room M105 at Trinity Evangelical Free Church, 1551 Reservoir Road, Redlands. Meetings include coffee and conversation with other mothers and mentors. Cost for the fall semester is $75 if paid by Oct. 2, $80 after Oct. 2. Cost includes child care, crafts and an occasional potluck brunch. Information: 909-335-7333, ext. 150; or www.trinityonline.org A Gospel Night is held at 7 p.m. the third Friday of the month at Los Rios Rancho, 39611 Oak Glen Road, Oak Glen. Freewill offerings are accepted. Dating support workshops are offered at 7 p.m. the first and third Friday of every month at the Spiritual Treatment Center, 602 N. Church St., Redlands. Pamela Vandervoort leads the workshops. Topics include “Getting started dating,” “Get clear on what you want,” “Online dating” and more. Cost is $10. “Afternoon Delight” dance socials for seniors are held 2 p.m. the third Friday of the month at Redlands Community Senior Center, 111 W. Lugonia Ave. Couples and singles are welcome. There is no charge. SATURDAY Opening performance of LifeHouse Theater’s “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe” is 7:30 p.m. at the theater at 1135 N. Church St., Redlands. Performances continue continue at 7:30 p.m. Fridays, 2:15 and 7:30 p.m. Saturdays and 2:15 p.m. Sundays. There is one Thursday performance, at 7:30 p.m. Nov. 3. The 7:30 performance on Oct. 29 will feature in interpreted presentation for the deaf. Information: 909-335-3037, ext. 21; www.lifehousetheater.com Sunkissed Squares square dance club will hold a “Spooky Squares” dance at Redlands Community Center, 111 W. Lugonia Ave., Redlands. Rounds with Howard Delcombe start at 6:30 p.m. Skip Stanley calls squares from 7:30 to 10. Dance will be mainstream and plus levels. Cost is a $6 donation. Dances are the second and fourth Saturdays of the month. Information: Bill Hunt, 909-886-1150 The 29th annual Friends of UCR Botanic Gardens Fall Plant Sale is noon to 4 p.m. at the gardens on Botanic Gardens Drive on the UC Riverside campus. The sale continues 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Sunday. Information: 951-784-6962; www.gardens.ucr.edu SUNDAY Adult Children of Alcoholics meets 11 a.m. to noon every Sunday at the Redlands Unity Club, 1307 Brookside Ave., Redlands. Group members practice the “12 Steps” to find freedom from the past and a way to improve their lives now. Information: www.adultchildren.org Dana A. Solla of Mentone will sign copies of his book “Christians’ House” 1 to 3 p.m. at Augie’s Coffee House, 113 N. Fifth St., Redlands. Breakfast is served at American Legion Post 106 from 9 a.m. to noon every Sunday. The meal includes traditional breakfast fare and steak and eggs. American Legion Post 106 is at 814 W. Colton Ave., Redlands. The public is invited. Information: 909-792-4523 Overeaters Anonymous, a 12-step program for people recovering from eating disorders, meets at 6:30 a.m. Sundays at The Unity Club, 1307 Brookside Ave., Redlands. Information: 952-715-2080; www.go2oa.org MONDAY Compulsive Eaters Anonymous meets 5:30 p.m. every Monday at First Lutheran Church of Redlands, 1207 W. Cypress Ave. Information: 909-645-4561 Story time and craft hour for children ages 3 to 5 is 12:30 p.m. Mondays at Mentone Branch Library, 1331 Opal Ave., Mentone. Information: 909-794-0327 Families Anonymous meets 6:30 to 8 p.m. every Monday at St. Francis X Cabrini Church, 12687 California St., Yucaipa. Families Anonymous is a 12-step self-help and self-recovery program for families and friends of those who use and abuse drugs or alcohol and have behavioral problems. This chapter is mainly Hispanic. There are no dues or fees. Information: Miguel, 909-721-9901; Juana S., 951-235-1522 GriefShare grief recovery group meets 7 p.m. every Monday in the lounge of First Baptist Church of Redlands, 51 W. Olive Ave. Meetings include GriefShare videos, and people may join the group any time. Information: First Baptist Church, 909-793-3289; Marge Emrick, 909-792-4745 American Legion Post 106 offers Taco Night from 5:30 to 8 p.m. every Monday. A combination plate of tacos, rice and beans costs $4. American Legion Post 106 is at 814 W. Colton Ave., Redlands. Valley Mesa Garden Club meets at 1 p.m. at Norton Younglove Senior Center, 908 Park, Calimesa. Meetings are the fourth Monday of the month, September through June. Guests are always welcome. Information: 909-795-5076 Items for the calendar should be submitted two weeks in advance of the event to: Calendar, Redlands Daily Facts, 700 Brookside Ave., Redlands, CA 92373, or to editor@inlandnewspapers.com

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